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Useful Mindsets for Disarming Male Competition-II

By: Vin DiCarlo..

The other important thing I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more "dominant" than you.

The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power - he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.

But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.

Plus, in this modern world it is irrelevant to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It's illegal.

You'll always end up losing if you attack another person because the police always win.

If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!

Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

It was annoying - remembering all the girls I missed out on because I was scare about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!

You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do, when the time comes that you're on your deathbed. How painful it is to say "I haven't approached that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy."

I don't want that to be you.

So let's understand it deeply. Seeing the other guy as more dominant means you don't really understand dominance.

You see, if you're concerned with who is more dominant you instantly make yourself NOT dominant. There's a better focus.

You must first THINK like a dominant man in order to become dominant. And dominant men doesn't care who is more dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is that they are doing or want.

So when you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Focus on the girls instead of worrying who is the dominant between the two of you.

I seldom even acknowledge other guys, because it's proven to be just a waste of time. 9 out of 10 women don't even know the guy - they just meet him.

Or if they do, he's a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.

Normally, seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating, more often they would like to bring with them a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

And aside from that, if he IS with one of the girls, then it will be a fair game because it means that he's NOT with the other girls.

When you are concerned with who's the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.

Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!

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